We increased much less guilty about my ideas for women. The sounds inside my head asserting that I was a pervert calmed straight down;
I had fulfilled way too many ‘normal’ people of different orientations that i really couldn’t see myself personally any much less regular any longer. Heck, my personal department’s dean was out and happy.
And simply that way eventually, while at an LGBTQ celebration, we remarked to someone that I happened to be bisexual.
Since then, i have worked towards arriving at terms with that identity.